Nollywood actor, blogger, Charles Novia has reacted on the grudge between multi-talented script writer and movie director, Tchidi Chikere and his Ex-wife Sophia; who broke-up with her husband some couple of months back. Tchidi, who recently had his traditional marriage with Nuella, a Nollywood actress with a gorgeous role to be highly celebrated say's she is his missing rib.
Charles, who is a styled blogger seems to have some fresh thoughts always got inspired and claims he's an entertainment blogger too. Tchidi who after been separated with his Ex-wife Sophia, also a Nollywood actress with 3 kids went on to be calling her all sorts of names and even directed to her on a tweet that she is a cheat. His last tweet to her never got comprehended and won't be appreciated by human; and some minutes after he tweeted he went on to delete all of them. Charles who already got inspired took him to publish new blog post, titled, "Tchidi Talk Not". He directed to him as one of the best brains they'd have in Nollywood. His words below:
I have known him in a professional capacity for close to
fourteen years and I relate well with him in the few instances we have met and
had discussions. Tchidi has a burning desire to make a change in Nollywood, to
shoot movies which somehow should re-calibrate society's moral journey. I
particularly love some of his movies for the uncanny way he brings out everyday
characters in simple lifestyles and turn them to complex evolutionary beings in
complex situations. As a movie director and a scriptwriter, Tchidi is gifted.
Very gifted. Take it from me.
In my usual no-holds-barred critique of his acting, I would
be less charitable in my accolades. But I am not writing this to detract from
his credentials as a celebrated auteur. I am writing this out of concern,
perhaps more professional but with a huge personal slant to it as well.
It is a well-known fact by now that Tchidi got married to an
actress, Nuella, a few days ago. First of all, Tchidi, I must congratulate you
on that. Whatever the opinions people have, we must all respect the wishes of
consenting adults when it comes to tying the knot. He made a choice and we
should respect that, no matter how much the slanderous anonymous commentators
on social media think they know.
That Tchidi got seperated from his former wife, Sophia who
bore him three children is perhaps unfortunate but like I said, consenting
adults take decisions which they believe is best for them at certain stages in
life. Such decisions might come much anger and recriminations and would always
leave scars in the hearts of both parties. Divorce or seperation are never
pleasant.
My concern in this case has to do with the open fights
between Tchidi and Sophia on social media AFTER Tchidi's new marriage. On face
value, it would seem to have started with Tchidi's rant on twitter a couple of
days back against his ex-wife.
The tweets were quite shocking and less than charitable, to
say the least. Though from the tweets, one could psycho-analyse that Tchidi was
really angry, hurt and perhaps deliberately hitting below the belt at his
former wife. My first reaction when I read those tweets on a blog was one of
shock. Those tweets were totally uncalled for. Totally. Granted, they might
have been written in a miasma of negative volcanic emotions but total restraint
is required from a man in those kind of circumstances. And such restraint is
justified when the mother of your blood children is involved!
Sophia had a riposte which I read as well and she had a
moral right to respond too. But something tells me that Tchidi would wish to
fire another salvo at that response and thus start a social media bric-a-brac
which would inflict more wounds on all parties. That is why I had to write this
open opinion.
In Nollywood, and perhaps to a small extent the entertainment
industry in general, most of the creatives tend to look away when acrimonious
matters befall one of their own. First reactions would be one of aloofness,
followed by private gossip in meeting places. Sometimes, colleagues and friends
of such personalities would whisper malicious things about the subject in
private while pretending to be all coy and concerned when they meet the
suffering subjects in public. Oh Yes! My sector have some psychophants and
pretenders as with politics but isn't that how life goes?
Perhaps Tchidi and Sophia are being wrongly advised by
masquerading friends? Or maybe they are not even being advised at all by anyone
but are just ventilating on social media, giving bloggers more hits and the
country one more piece of idle gossip?
Whatever the case, I will openly advise Tchidi to stop
further tweets or replies on this matter. For the record, I don't know Sophia
or Nuella and haven't met with any ever and don't wish to. My concern, as a
father, is for the kids from Tchidi's first marriage and perhaps future kids
from this new marriage. Do not celebrate your misgivings on social media.
Sheath the swords. Think of the children. The children. The children.
Those poor kids are going through indescribable torture and
pain already. You don't need to add fuel to their discomfort. Angry words once
written and published are hard to take back, even with the passing of time.
Celebrities are human too. That you see us on the screens or
read about us does not make us less human than the other fellow. Fame and
fortune only hide our foibles and finnicks. But we are human. However, whilst
we are human, there are expectations of decorum we all must adhere to. And if
it is just for the kids, Tchidi and Sophia (and perhaps Nuella) must adhere to
the dictates of decorum.
I am not writing this to take sides or blame any of the
parties involved. I am writing this openly because whatever linens being
displayed by all parties in the open should be brought down immediately.
May God help all parties pass through this period and bless
them all as they move on to the next phase of their lives.
Amen.
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